Honestly it's a matter of perception. Mem just fool themselves by believing in these silly social prototypes.
They will agree otherwise.
In the process they suffer emotionally. This could lead to anxiety, depression and possible self harm.
Most people don’t realize all these happen due to what is happening in our societies.
Glad you see it this way @nhaji01 . People may or may not agree but this is what I see around me.
I understand you.