Seriously, they let you as a kid waste away while this guy wasn't even following doctor's orders while being treated? That's messed up.
You definitely have to pull away from those who are just wasting your resources. I had to make a similar choice with someone online. I wanted to see this person succeed. But some seem determined to be stuck in the same unending loop...
Yeah, it was messed up. I was also told that what was causing the pancreatitis, wasn't. I haven't had a lot of luck with my health or medical help in general throughout my life part of the reason I value taking responsibility to look after myself as much as possible.
Yes, it is difficult to watch. But, their choice.
It sounds like you need better doctors :( ... Or like you said, take care of your own health. Sometimes the treatment is worse than the original problem.
Yes it is hard to watch, and sometimes you just have to pull away completely when you know you can't do anything. That could actually be what wakes them up, who knows.