It's a TOTE, in fact. What we do it TEST-OPERATE-TEST-EXIT, we keep testing the best decisions for ourselves. It might seem like we are self-sabotaging, but here it is === we're just making the right choices each moment for ourselves. Each choice stands for a certain moment and when we decide to do something is because more than 51% us trust that we're doing the right thing. So, it might be just allowing ourselves to do other things than what we initially wanted, but that is because our subconscious mind or maybe even the conscient one tells us that we need to do something else in that specific moment. There is only feedback that we offer to ourselves.
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Thanks for your answer , I think I've never seen it before I mean I always tended to feel guilty for my decisions in the past and I've struggled with those memories for years, what u are saying helps a lot to understand that what I did in the past answered to what I thought would be right for those moments and stop feeling guilty it's a breath of oxygen to my mind.
If you can be gentle with yourself and take it easier, that will help you so much. Putting almost no pressure on making yourself feel guilty about past or future moments. Everything that you do is the best decision at that moment. This is a #selflove step that you can take towards yourself. Your timeline encompasses who you are. Why not encompass acceptance in it and get rid of that toxic guilt?
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I'll try harder to feel better and less worried about the past and the future , again thanks to u for your writing , I'm already following u btw I'm new here in hive :) keep writing and see u soon
That time of worrying can be used effectively just to make a risk assessment for future plans, a simple ecology and see how congruent you are with future decisions that you are about to take, and detox from past guilt, shame, trauma.
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