Thanks for your thoughtful reply!
There's no doubt we get ideas and influences from the world around us... but it can easily become a problem when we stop feeling content with simply being ourselves... and instead turn to trying to "become" something that isn't actually us, purely in service of this "normal" thing.
Very true. Quite unbelivele that the pressure to fit in can be so hard that we feel it´s worth putting it all the effort possible to be normal. No matter the struggle seeking to be normal seems better then seeking acceptence of ones self. Not even talking about selflove which seems to be even harder to find.