想不想知道中国的女孩子喜欢去酒吧的原因？
女孩们去酒吧是希望被搭讪吗？并不是你想象的那样？
What's the reason Chinese Girls go to bars?
Do Girls go to the bar for chance encounters? Maybe the reasons are not as you think..
我就常常被女朋友们拉去酒吧，所以也记录下很多不同的酒吧。但是其实我并不是很会喝酒，也不喜欢男生的搭讪，我只是喜欢单纯的享受酒吧的音乐和环境。
这一家叫做云酷，绝对是北京近五年火起来的酒吧，他吸引人的地方大概是因为他位于国贸大酒店的第80层，风景可想而知是非常壮观的。尤其当你坐在窗边的位置，一边品味美酒一边欣赏从高处俯视的美景，确实别有一番滋味。这家酒吧我来过3次，每次都是爆满需要排队等位置的情况。并且窗边的桌子是有低消的，价格大概是800元，这大概是北京平均的低消价格。
第一次来比较有意思，因为朋友都有点饿，就点了小蛋糕配上鸡尾酒，所以就成了大半夜的下午茶。
My friends like to visit bars so I find myself in bars quite often. It's difficult to believe, but the reason we go isn't actually because we like to drink alcohol, it's also not because we want to meet guys. Its really about enjoying the music and environment.
This particular one is called cool cloud，a bar that has gained popularity over the last 5 years. Its attracts people because of its location which is on the 80th floor of the Beijing Traders hotel. Because the bar is situated up high in the skyline of Beijing, the views are spectacular. There's so much more you can gain from a drink sitting by the window and enjoying the view of Beijing. The last three times i've come to the bar, there has been a queue. Of course, the seats by the window are very popular, so the demand results in long queues. However, the price is very reasonable, at around 800 RMB for minimum spend, this is considered quite a reasonably priced venue.
The first time I came here, it was late at night. My friends were very hungry so we ordered some cakes as well as some cocktails. We basically had afternoon tea in the middle of the night!
仔细看看这些小蛋糕，做的好可爱，都不忍心把他们吃掉了。
Take a closer look at these little cakes, aren't they so cute? I almost couldn't eat them!
朋友们帮我用手摆出了年度最佳创意的美女下午茶，这么摆看着是不是很诱人？
I got my friends to help me make the most beautiful afternoon tea, this arrangement is pretty attractive no?
喜欢这里高高的沙发，坐着确实很舒服。
I really like the high sofa's, its really comfy.
这里的环境特别好，装修得很精细。对了，女孩们到了酒吧的第一件大事，大概就是自拍了。我们对自拍这件事情没有疲倦过，不过我不是很喜欢自拍，是个个例。
The environment here is particularly nice, the decor is really detailed. The first thing girls love to do when they first arrive is take some selfies. Taking selfies is never tiring and a must-do. I'm personally not too fond of selfies, but each person is different.
吃茶品鸡尾酒的同时，别忘了看看这个城市的灯火辉煌，80层俯瞰，车子真的好像蚂蚁。
Afternoon tea with cocktails at the same time. Also don't forget to check out the night view. From the 80th floor, the lights from the car make them look like ants.
因为我和朋友为了玩起来比较安全方便，我们在国贸大酒店住了几天。
Tea product cocktails , do not forget to check out the city ablaze with lights , 80th floor overlooking the car really like ants.
所以我们和不同的朋友来了这家酒吧很多次。第二天来酒吧我和朋友选择坐在吧台，点了香醇巧克力的百力甜鸡尾酒，还有清爽的梅子酒，这是甜和酸的碰撞。
We've come to this bar many times with different friends. The next day, me and my friends came again but chose to sit at the bar. We ordered some baileys cocktails along with some plum wine. The taste was a fusion of both sweet and sour.
女生去酒吧，夏天的时候很喜欢穿牛仔短裤，我很推荐朋友的这款雷丝腿包，有了他，大概不用背包了，背包去酒吧经常会因为光线太暗或者喝的太醉而丢了背包，腿包绑在大腿上，大概有3个口袋，可以装下手机和小钱包。很实用又方便。
Girls going to the bars in the summer like to wear denim shorts, I recommended my friend to wear a lacy leg bag. With this leg bag, you won't need to take a regular bag with you. At bars, its often quite dark, or you may be too intoxicated to remember where you put your bag, with a bag tied to your thigh, your phone and wallets can be safely secured to your person. It's both practical and convenient.
还没坐多久，乐队就来了，几个外国人唱的都是非常经典的歌曲，充满了回忆过去的感觉。
It wasn't long after we sat down that the band came to play. They sang some classic songs which reminded me of some good memories.
第三晚来这个酒吧，我们坐在窗边的桌子，点了很多特别的酒。
The third night at the bar, we sat at a table by the window. We went for quite a variety of drinks.
例如北京特有的故宫系列鸡尾酒，分为有酒精和没有酒精的，这个系列的亮点大概是装酒的容器，由中国古代的鼎，古色古香的茶杯，也有传统的茶具。
There's a special kind of cocktail series based on the style of the Forbidden City. Its served either alcoholic or non-alcoholic and is presented in a variety of unique containers. There's the ancient chinese tripod, antique cup, and traditional tea cup!
That looks like a very nice bar. Thanks for sharing the story!
Thank you for reading! Lots of interesting things happening that I want to share ! :)
What a great post, very enlightening and it has opened my eyes a little!! I think you'll find it's the same in most "bars" now, you cannot underestimate the power that a little mystique can wield. Thank you for sharing!!
👍nice post, beautiful place... have fun @sweetssst
"she" still hasn't provided any verification. no steemit sign to be seen anywhere.
not even in "her" introduceyourself:
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china
for all we know they could all be pictures ripped from a chinese girl's social media.
I thought this post would be boring and just about nightclubs.
It was actually about strange cat people who live in towers and eat cake
Thank you for such an interesting post. Please write more.
Where is your planet located?
I believe my home planet kittydom was rendered uninhabitable due to exhaustion of natural resources. I was sent here really young so I still don't know all the answers to my cat people ancestry, maybe I'll find out more as I explore? Maybe you will follow me on my journey 😺
Unbelievable. 800RMB is pretty big sum of money for me. You are probably very rich person.
We split the cost between us 4 girls. So it's not very much per person.
有点文不对题，我以为有The secrets of why girls go to the bar，结果是介绍北京的一家酒吧。
当然，美女的帖子，谁在乎写的是什么，点赞。
更何况写得不错
谢谢你的点赞，我写的不太好，还在研究中，希望接下来文章不会跑题。
分享得很不错，酒吧很有特色。运气好点这篇帖子可以过千。
谢谢，希望啦~
Reminds me the restaurant up in the Tokyo tower.
ps @sweetsssj in one picture you look like a plastic doll
Cool bar. Next time i find myself in Beijing i have to find it. and will you marry me
lol first steemit marriage proposal?
beautiful classy lady has no problem dropping 800RMB on tea and cakes. My kinda girl. lol ^^
这个要支持，steemit第一例求婚的
想起一个很久远的词汇：大图杀猫，图多杀猫
另外这么多美女，哪个是楼主呀？
第一张。
800 RMB is very expensive for China. That's a 3 month salary for a worker in the rice fields.
Beijing isn't in the rice fields.
Still. 120 USD minimum spend is very expensive. When i was in school when i was a kid we had to buy stuff to give to the chinese because they didn't have enough. The school collected all of our stuff and sent it to China telling us that there people were living with 1 usd per day and even less.
I think the situation used to be broadly like that but big cities like Beijing are now just super metropolises like any other modern developed city. Wages are catching up too.
scrolled the comments for this exchange rate!
Thank you for sharing
This is the kind of place where the food and drinks are almost too beautifully presented to be consumed. Almost.
lol @ the people calling her out
环境挺好。那甜点看了就难以抗拒。:-)
是的，挺好吃的~
Oozes class, i'd love to know how what girls think of guys at bars?
It depends on the situation ~~ but maybe I will write about this sometime if people want to hear my thoughts about it!
美女搞个身份验证的照片，一定能火
哈哈，谢谢。
美女的话，只要拿着steem的牌子，到各个地方，拍照就可以了。这是现在流行的玩法。
谢谢你的提议。
为什么有的美女蒙脸，有的美女出镜？
细想之下，楼主这个问题很严重啊。你们懂的。
哈哈，因为这篇文章是女孩们的秘密呀~~
I will definitely visit when im in Beijing!
great! I'm so happy i've convinced atleast one person to visit !
My parents were born and grew up in Shanghai and migrated to the US for college. I was born and raised in the US and have never gotten the chance to visit China. I definitely want to visit my roots and was planning to visit sometime this year
如果不嫌人多，可以去五道营胡同的酒吧看看，还不错。
谢谢你的推荐 我下次会去看看！
Thoughtful, Thanks
You're welcome, I will continue to write and share other interesting tidbits with everyone. I very much appreciate your vote of confidence.
Nice post, but please remove the introduceyourself tag, because you might get flagged by the tag abuse bot which will damage your reputation.
Thank you, and keep posting!
Cg
thank you for the tip! I didn't know that.. I will use it with my proper introduction. Thanks again ~~
欢迎来到新的社会媒体平台。我太激动了，不同的文化在此joing平台完美的事情。我只是跟着你的方式，并希望能再次见到你。这是美妙的，谷歌为我们提供你的语言沟通的机会。我来自非洲其实我并讲话南非荷兰语:)
谢谢你的支持哦！
欢迎美女，越来越多的人来cn区了。
谢谢你，我也很开心可以分享给你们，希望大家多多支持和点赞哦！
Hello. See my post on language tags https://steemit.com/languagetags/@leprechaun/use-iso-language-tags-for-steemit-is-multilingual and vote up if you think it is a good idea.
So you're going to bars to enjoy yourselves and have a good time?
Seems legit.
I guess what she's trying to say is that the preconception that girls goto bars to get picked up or meet guys isnt true at all. It seems like they can and do have a good time just by themselves.
Like it wasn't an option to have a good time if one goes out. You don't have to be a prostitute to go to bars.
You're right!
呃，美女这个帖子的收益够去N多次酒吧了
求同往
I would love to visit some Bars in Japan. Thanks for sharing! Oh, and you're beautiful...
Looks like a really interesting bar,curious about the cocktail list.Great content ☺
Nice Share
Saludos desde Venezuela, espero ganar mucho dinero con esto.
I would venture to say that they go to the bar to get hammered...then to get smashed later on. ;)
Come to Australia ill show you how we do it over here
I see you're a fan of the Dutch camera angles!
Up!
a great bar look like fun..
hi, where's the verification? how do we know you're not using someone elses pictures off facebook?
so many pictures you posted and not even 1 of you holding a Steemit sign .
This is an NOT an "introduce yourself" post. It is a story about a bar in Beijing and why the girls go there. The food and the ambiance and the view.
Please remove your flag. This post could be an excellent introduction of steemit to Beijing office girls (who ALL have smartphones). Adoption in China could take off.
even in her introduceyourself she posted no verification:
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china
unless she verifies I won't remove it. @anyx @cheetah
she obviously loves taking pictures so taking one holding a piece of paper wth steemit written on it shouldn't be much trouble.
@indominon you're @onceuponatime (and a few other whale nicks), as can be seen from your wallet and also who upvoted your "top reply" to help you bank on this thread.
you upvoted even her bogus unverified intro (same names involved: onceuponatime,erath,bue)
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china
so I think it's becoming clear who's behind this "sweetsssj" sham . good luck.
I am not "behind" this post. I saw it, and saw an opportunity for steemit to make very good publicity in the Beijing market if it got a large payout (similar to the great publicity from @dollarvigilante's highly rewarded post. If steemit goes viral in China then steemit rewards will be all the greater for content creators.
I don't know what your skill set is, but it probably does not include successful marketing or business development.
You have flagged this post because of some personal vendetta or witchhunt. That is not cool.
I will be flagging all your future posts until you remove this flag.
it's you who's flagging me for personal vendetta and censorship. I've got nothing against anyone.
I just don't believe it's her (as we speak she still hasn't verified, and 3 days have passed since her intro) . if she verified I'd be glad to remove flag and upvote. if it's a marketing stunt then just say so but don't ask me to believe she's genuine on blind faith, not after seeing all the scams that went on in the past few weeks.
I agree. This is lifestyle and culture writing with good photography. The identity of the writer isn't important. The only issue would be if it isn't original work, but I see no evidence of that.
she claims to be the girl in the pictures, as you can see also in her introduceyourself post:
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china
is identity theft not a serious issue? @anyx @cheetah
there's even a selfie in her intro. so if the identity of the writer is not the same as the girl taking the selfie then it's clear that the photographs are ripped form some social media.
What I'm saying is the context of this post makes the identity of the author irrelevant. It could be a fictional or semi-fictionalized character speaking in the first person (like Carrie from Sex and the City) and it would take nothing away from the post. Now if the pictures are ripped off, that's an issue. If there is identity theft that's an issue.
But for all you know the photos are the actual author, or are used with permission. Unless you have evidence to the contrary you are engaging in a witch hunt. Please stop.
You are certainly free to not vote for the post though, for whatever reason, if it doesn't appear compelling to you as adding value.
@smooth I agree. I don't support content theft or misleading people but some people spend so much time looking for plagiarism etc that could be better spent reading and upvoting high quality original content.
This is obviously genuine.
"she" posted so many pictures and not even 1 holding a steemit sign. not even in "her" introduceyourself:
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china
so "she"'s not verified. your belief that it's genuine it's not based on any evidence.
I'm sorry I didn't realize that the norm is to verify in that way. Rest assured my next post will clarify things beyond doubt. Thank you for checking out my blog though very appreciated.
seems you just want to wait for the payout first. I wonder why ;)
you could easily add a verification picture now and prove to us you're indeed this girl.
https://steemit.com/life/@sweetsssj/how-do-girls-live-well-in-china.
then we'd all be glad to upvote you.
糜烂的生活