Wow....
This is just the bomb...
It speaks volumes, yet softly....
When you don’t allow yourself to heal, you leave yourself in a vulnerable state. When you leave yourself in such a vulnerable state, you may get treated poorly. The other person, for whatever motive he or she has for choosing you other than love, will make you feel he or she is doing you a favour by dating you, since you have lost your own sense of worth by not allowing yourself to heal before going into another relationship.
This is why many people make statements such as.....
"All guys are the same"
Because they didn't allow themselves to heal, they accept trash from someone who's willing to give whatever in the name of love.
Thanks much for this piece.
Totally enjoyed it
Exactly. This is why many repeat experiences of hurts and pains because they lack self love too, and you get treated the way you have shown. When you don't love yourself enough, it is a clear sign you want to be treated anyhow. When you love yourself, this other person will see it and know that he must never go below that standard, because once he does, he knows problems are bound to suffice.
Thank you so much darling. Really appreciate you.