RE: Heal First, Part II. Contributed by @Olawalium

Yes, how we handle it determines the course of our life.

The way we tell ourselves the story affects how we see ourselves and the world around us. So, if you want to recover from your broken heart, you need to start paying attention to the story you’re telling yourself.

I love that. How you tell yourself the story matters. How you see the break up matter, and it helps the healing process. Do you see it as hurt? As a lesson? As a slap on your face? etc... These determines how longer we are going to take to heal, by how we choose to see whatever happened to us.

Gracias Amigo.