Everyone has a personal secret sometimes people can not also keep their secrets because of the inner pressure must be told. As a person who gets a secret story, keeping the secrets of others is also often a burden. He has an obligation to keep his mouth shut even if people around him try to find out.
Holding secret orders needs consistency. If you've been a place to talk, and help you to be consistent keep your mouth secret.
Be careful not to get stuck talking about overdoing someone you have a little secret about. For example, when you know your beloved friend is having an affair, you should not immediately notify him. Let your friends know for themselves the love of her lover has been cheating. If she is suspicious and asks you about the cheating, you just tell it as it is without the need for any additional exaggeration. Sometimes a person can deal with his own problems. And, there are also people who are better off not knowing a truth that can make them hurt. So stay in a neutral position.
Make sure you understand how long the secret should be stored. There are times when secrets must be disclosed for a while and may be known by others after that. However, not a little secret that should be kept to death because it may be a big disgrace. You have to be wise about it.
There is no need to signal that you know a secret. If that is done, then you lure other people to be curious and to find out more. Therefore, behave as if nothing happened.
When there is a conversation that can create a secret revealed, you should quickly switch the topic discussed. Sometimes in one group of friends spontaneously discuss personal problems and disgrace. When you are inside it should be silent. If possible try fishing with other chat topics.
If necessary, write down the secrets you know and should not disclose. Writing will make your burden to keep secret reduced. Make no mistake, the person who keeps a lot of secrets too often also want to immediately tell what he knows to feel relieved heart. So, to be safe, make a diary or other paper as a place to spill the various secrets.
If you already feel bored and not strong enough to keep various secrets, you should be firm to refuse to listen to curhatan others. That way, you can be free of emotional burden and guilt if at any time there is a leaked secrets.
The secret must be keep, however the situation because the name is a secret.
But who is more able to keep a secret? Man or woman?
Somebody say, "better tell the secret to men". Because men are considered capable of keeping secrets, and rarely gossiping like most women. Yes, the habit of gossiping women makes them considered can not keep a secret. People judge, their secret will be scattered when the women begin gossiping. Is that true?.
Research conducted by The Fifth Estate thus reveals the opposite. In fact, it is precisely the prialah hard to keep secrets than women. Studies conducted in the year 2014 it found that men can't keep a secret in a long time. The average man was only able to keep a secret for 2 hours 47 minutes, 40 minutes faster than women.
The length of time shows when the man has difficulty in keeping the secret. However, from 2,000 adults who become the respondents, a total of 92% of men believe and profess to positively if they are good at saving secrets. The fact? The results of the data shows that one in ten men confessed to leaking the secrets of one's personal within 10 minutes after the secret is told.
More about that again, one of the twenty men confessed to telling secrets that he can to the five.
Well it depends on the nature of secrets.
For example if someone has trusted me and told me his secret for some reason I will not break his trust.
If some secret belong to myself and if I feel that telling him secret would help him, I would told him my secret.
If something belong to my personal life and there is no benefit of telling someone my secret rather it may cause problem to me then I will never told to anyone.
In general, I keep secrets of the people who trust me and tell me their secrets for the sake of advises.
Know the secret seriousness before you hear it. If someone tells you in advance that he or she will notify you a secret, ask for more information. Find out if it's a "little" secret or a "big" secret. This will let you know the importance of keeping it a secret. It also lets you know if you should give the person the full attention when he reveals his secret (checking the phone when speaking seriously is bad ethics). Prepare yourself to hear the secret, knowing that it's something you can hold.
If we people trust each other and have big friend circle then for me it is very hard to keep secrets and it is very difficult to keep put such secrets in our mind. But in natural i can keep secret till 5-6 weeks as i have not much keeping power i just share with my friends every things.
Everyone has a personal secret sometimes people can not also keep their secrets because of the inner pressure must be told. As a person who gets a secret story, keeping the secrets of others is also often a burden. He has an obligation to keep his mouth shut even if people around him try to find out.
Holding secret orders needs consistency. If you've been a place to talk, and help you to be consistent keep your mouth secret.
Be careful not to get stuck talking about overdoing someone you have a little secret about. For example, when you know your beloved friend is having an affair, you should not immediately notify him. Let your friends know for themselves the love of her lover has been cheating. If she is suspicious and asks you about the cheating, you just tell it as it is without the need for any additional exaggeration. Sometimes a person can deal with his own problems. And, there are also people who are better off not knowing a truth that can make them hurt. So stay in a neutral position.
Make sure you understand how long the secret should be stored. There are times when secrets must be disclosed for a while and may be known by others after that. However, not a little secret that should be kept to death because it may be a big disgrace. You have to be wise about it.
There is no need to signal that you know a secret. If that is done, then you lure other people to be curious and to find out more. Therefore, behave as if nothing happened.
When there is a conversation that can create a secret revealed, you should quickly switch the topic discussed. Sometimes in one group of friends spontaneously discuss personal problems and disgrace. When you are inside it should be silent. If possible try fishing with other chat topics.
If necessary, write down the secrets you know and should not disclose. Writing will make your burden to keep secret reduced. Make no mistake, the person who keeps a lot of secrets too often also want to immediately tell what he knows to feel relieved heart. So, to be safe, make a diary or other paper as a place to spill the various secrets.
If you already feel bored and not strong enough to keep various secrets, you should be firm to refuse to listen to curhatan others. That way, you can be free of emotional burden and guilt if at any time there is a leaked secrets.
The secret must be keep, however the situation because the name is a secret.
But who is more able to keep a secret? Man or woman?
Somebody say, "better tell the secret to men". Because men are considered capable of keeping secrets, and rarely gossiping like most women. Yes, the habit of gossiping women makes them considered can not keep a secret. People judge, their secret will be scattered when the women begin gossiping. Is that true?.
Research conducted by The Fifth Estate thus reveals the opposite. In fact, it is precisely the prialah hard to keep secrets than women. Studies conducted in the year 2014 it found that men can't keep a secret in a long time. The average man was only able to keep a secret for 2 hours 47 minutes, 40 minutes faster than women.
The length of time shows when the man has difficulty in keeping the secret. However, from 2,000 adults who become the respondents, a total of 92% of men believe and profess to positively if they are good at saving secrets. The fact? The results of the data shows that one in ten men confessed to leaking the secrets of one's personal within 10 minutes after the secret is told.
More about that again, one of the twenty men confessed to telling secrets that he can to the five.
Well, generally, it depends on the kind of secret you're actually hiding.
Is it gonna harm you or someone else if disclosed?
Or are you gonna be haunted by it if kept a secret.
For as long as you won't be haunted by it, then you can keep it, if its really a secret.
I have kept a secret for well over 12 years and I don't intend exposing it.
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Well it depends on the nature of secrets.
For example if someone has trusted me and told me his secret for some reason I will not break his trust.
If some secret belong to myself and if I feel that telling him secret would help him, I would told him my secret.
If something belong to my personal life and there is no benefit of telling someone my secret rather it may cause problem to me then I will never told to anyone.
In general, I keep secrets of the people who trust me and tell me their secrets for the sake of advises.
View this answer on Musing.io
Know the secret seriousness before you hear it. If someone tells you in advance that he or she will notify you a secret, ask for more information. Find out if it's a "little" secret or a "big" secret. This will let you know the importance of keeping it a secret. It also lets you know if you should give the person the full attention when he reveals his secret (checking the phone when speaking seriously is bad ethics). Prepare yourself to hear the secret, knowing that it's something you can hold.
If we people trust each other and have big friend circle then for me it is very hard to keep secrets and it is very difficult to keep put such secrets in our mind. But in natural i can keep secret till 5-6 weeks as i have not much keeping power i just share with my friends every things.