Hello!
You never love for a reason. There’s something called blind love, there is absolutely no reason for it.
Then there is love for pets, again no reason. You just love them more and more each day without any expectations.
Loving for a reason is not pure love I guess.
I strongly agree with you mate on this, love should be for no reason and even if we love for a reason we should make it a blind love what did I mean by this
I will like to share a short story with you which I will also like other mate to go through..
Their was a man that got married to a beautiful lady, it all shows around the man that he actually got married to the woman because of her beauty and the woman is also aware.
Their live fine as a family and everything was fine for them until one day when the husband went for a long journey which actually take him some month before he returned home
At the period before he returned the woman as fell into serious sickness that almost take her life and this as affected her beauty ,in fact when she checked herself in the mirror she knows she as become so ugly that she hated herself and she feel like giving up even before the husband arrival
But to her surprise by the time the husband arrived he was blind and he can't see anything again it was this woman that was helping him to do everything he want to do..
That was how this woman being to live with joy and happiness of mind she never care about her beauty again and she begin to love herself the way she is..
After many years of living together with peace and joy this woman dead due to the affect the sickness as cause to her..people beginning to sympathize and having pity on the man on how is going to live his life now that his wife as death when he can not even see.
Then the man come out the way he was that he never in anyway blind but he decided to do that to safe his wife's life
You can see how toughing the story was, is possible we love with a reason but we should be blind to those reasons and make love to be free
i dont think you can love for no reason because something must have attracted you to the person, even if it is a pet you love it because of something maybe the colour or shape.
If you say so,but I want to be that it is very possible due to the way or side am seeing it from right now
That is a wonderful story, it shows truly the husband love his and not because of her beauty alone.
And this tell us that love Sacrifices for each other
i accept your explanations it is true, but in today's world can we love people without reason,
example: we dont want to date ugly girl so we look for beautiful lady.
that guy is handsome and rich i love him
I think we have very different views here.
I am surely not a very pretty and beautiful lady but my husband loves me like crazy. If beauty was the criteria for loving someone, most of the people on this planet would be unloved. Beauty is in the soul of a person, facial beauty has nothing to do with the character of the person, it is god gifted.
I didn't marry my guy because he was rich. I married him because I loved him. And I loved him because he loved me and he is a good guy.
You don't love someone for a reason, that's fake. Especially for beauty and money, never!
i think this passage has said it, you said you love your husband because he loves you, what if he stops to love you? will you still love him? what if he stops been a good man will you still love him?
i think am enjoying this conversation hope you are enjoying it too? 😄😄😄
That's not a reason to love him. That's a feeling, an emotion.
If you call that a reason, then ya I agree you cannot love anyone without a reason. Like Ilove my baby because he is my baby and I love my sister's baby because he is my nephew. So that's not a reason per say; it's natural.
I think your question would have been more appropriate had you asked If you can love someone without expecations.
Ya, I am enjoying it. Don't worry., I can debate with you on this topic all day long. :D
Well you gat to prove him wrong because if he have not experience love without expectation I have and it still exists now so I totally agree with you because love can be so real and sweet when you're in love with the right person.
Good to know your husband loves and cherish you, you're a lucky woman indeed which also made him a lucky man having you as his woman coming here to testify of how much he loves you.
Thank you! Finally someone supported me on the matter of love. What is even love with expectations and reasons? Then it would be a relationship deal, not love.
This is a total different thing I think you have mistook that to be love but it is not love when love happens it is uncontrollable because whatever you do you see yourself drawing close to the person without knowing.
This example you gave is just called gold diggers who love for a reason and what they can get in return from the victim and when this is gone when there is no money and no fame then you'll see them backing away slowly from what they claim is love.
That was just love for money and not genuine love.
Blind love you say,it comes with a reason..
there is always a reason for love,communication, friendship, partner, supporter, motivator etc..
All these are reasons why we might want to get along with someone
The reason is not like a reason, it's like somethin you like in the person, something you feel is important to you. Loving someone for a reason is selfish.
Ok, do mothers love their children for a reason? When a baby is born, he is ugly actually like a potato. He is not very fair, has no hair, the head is deformed. But the parents love them, what's the reason? There's no reason, it is unconditional.
i think the reason is because she is the mother, so no matter what she will love her child
Again, that's not a reason. That's a behavioural response that comes naturally.
The term reason sounds selfish and driven by a motive. Love is not selfish, it is infact selfless.
reason isn't selfish the natural meaning of reason, i dont think selfishness is included, is just that the love it attracted by something.
love without a reason will still love even when the person is no more they type of person you want them to be.
the bible says "when we are yet sinner CHRIST died for us" although we are sinners.
Blind love! Is the greatest love we are all saying, meaning that all what your partner do to you, you will not have room for thinking about it because you guys have study each other and well understanding as well so anything that your partner did will not be seen which any mistakes will be overlook or be corrected immediately not like having room for misunderstanding on there home which people around them will be saying t
they have perfect home
I bet You can't love ugly pet.its only God's kind love that is unconditional
Mate no one is ugly, to you the person met ugly to another is the more beautiful person.
And you know your choice met different from my or other person.
And some people love ugly lady because they believe no one will disturb her
Yes mate love for a is not a pure love, it is sure not you guess.
If that reason is no more than there won't love again
Thank you for saying that, love is not shown for reason, your explanation just explained all that I'm feeling. loving for a reason don't last because when that reason is no more everything fades.
True! If I love him because he is rich, tomorrow when he is not, my love will fade away. Then was it even love?
I agreed with you mate, even if it is not blind love issue,it is very vital that we know the basis if what true love is,it comes in an unimaginable Way