good morning house, today is another day, another success another achievement for everyone of us here.
I'm hosting a question again but this one is
not a riddle. and my question goes this way .
IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE WITHOUT A REASON?
good morning house, today is another day, another success another achievement for everyone of us here.
I'm hosting a question again but this one is
not a riddle. and my question goes this way .
IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE WITHOUT A REASON?
Hello!
You never love for a reason. There’s something called blind love, there is absolutely no reason for it.
Then there is love for pets, again no reason. You just love them more and more each day without any expectations.
Loving for a reason is not pure love I guess.
I strongly agree with you mate on this, love should be for no reason and even if we love for a reason we should make it a blind love what did I mean by this
I will like to share a short story with you which I will also like other mate to go through..
Their was a man that got married to a beautiful lady, it all shows around the man that he actually got married to the woman because of her beauty and the woman is also aware.
Their live fine as a family and everything was fine for them until one day when the husband went for a long journey which actually take him some month before he returned home
At the period before he returned the woman as fell into serious sickness that almost take her life and this as affected her beauty ,in fact when she checked herself in the mirror she knows she as become so ugly that she hated herself and she feel like giving up even before the husband arrival
But to her surprise by the time the husband arrived he was blind and he can't see anything again it was this woman that was helping him to do everything he want to do..
That was how this woman being to live with joy and happiness of mind she never care about her beauty again and she begin to love herself the way she is..
After many years of living together with peace and joy this woman dead due to the affect the sickness as cause to her..people beginning to sympathize and having pity on the man on how is going to live his life now that his wife as death when he can not even see.
Then the man come out the way he was that he never in anyway blind but he decided to do that to safe his wife's life
You can see how toughing the story was, is possible we love with a reason but we should be blind to those reasons and make love to be free
i dont think you can love for no reason because something must have attracted you to the person, even if it is a pet you love it because of something maybe the colour or shape.
If you say so,but I want to be that it is very possible due to the way or side am seeing it from right now
That is a wonderful story, it shows truly the husband love his and not because of her beauty alone.
And this tell us that love Sacrifices for each other
i accept your explanations it is true, but in today's world can we love people without reason,
example: we dont want to date ugly girl so we look for beautiful lady.
that guy is handsome and rich i love him
I think we have very different views here.
I am surely not a very pretty and beautiful lady but my husband loves me like crazy. If beauty was the criteria for loving someone, most of the people on this planet would be unloved. Beauty is in the soul of a person, facial beauty has nothing to do with the character of the person, it is god gifted.
I didn't marry my guy because he was rich. I married him because I loved him. And I loved him because he loved me and he is a good guy.
You don't love someone for a reason, that's fake. Especially for beauty and money, never!
i think this passage has said it, you said you love your husband because he loves you, what if he stops to love you? will you still love him? what if he stops been a good man will you still love him?
i think am enjoying this conversation hope you are enjoying it too? 😄😄😄
That's not a reason to love him. That's a feeling, an emotion.
If you call that a reason, then ya I agree you cannot love anyone without a reason. Like Ilove my baby because he is my baby and I love my sister's baby because he is my nephew. So that's not a reason per say; it's natural.
I think your question would have been more appropriate had you asked If you can love someone without expecations.
Ya, I am enjoying it. Don't worry., I can debate with you on this topic all day long. :D
Well you gat to prove him wrong because if he have not experience love without expectation I have and it still exists now so I totally agree with you because love can be so real and sweet when you're in love with the right person.
Good to know your husband loves and cherish you, you're a lucky woman indeed which also made him a lucky man having you as his woman coming here to testify of how much he loves you.
Thank you! Finally someone supported me on the matter of love. What is even love with expectations and reasons? Then it would be a relationship deal, not love.
This is a total different thing I think you have mistook that to be love but it is not love when love happens it is uncontrollable because whatever you do you see yourself drawing close to the person without knowing.
This example you gave is just called gold diggers who love for a reason and what they can get in return from the victim and when this is gone when there is no money and no fame then you'll see them backing away slowly from what they claim is love.
That was just love for money and not genuine love.
Blind love you say,it comes with a reason..
there is always a reason for love,communication, friendship, partner, supporter, motivator etc..
All these are reasons why we might want to get along with someone
The reason is not like a reason, it's like somethin you like in the person, something you feel is important to you. Loving someone for a reason is selfish.
Ok, do mothers love their children for a reason? When a baby is born, he is ugly actually like a potato. He is not very fair, has no hair, the head is deformed. But the parents love them, what's the reason? There's no reason, it is unconditional.
i think the reason is because she is the mother, so no matter what she will love her child
Again, that's not a reason. That's a behavioural response that comes naturally.
The term reason sounds selfish and driven by a motive. Love is not selfish, it is infact selfless.
reason isn't selfish the natural meaning of reason, i dont think selfishness is included, is just that the love it attracted by something.
love without a reason will still love even when the person is no more they type of person you want them to be.
the bible says "when we are yet sinner CHRIST died for us" although we are sinners.
Blind love! Is the greatest love we are all saying, meaning that all what your partner do to you, you will not have room for thinking about it because you guys have study each other and well understanding as well so anything that your partner did will not be seen which any mistakes will be overlook or be corrected immediately not like having room for misunderstanding on there home which people around them will be saying t
they have perfect home
I bet You can't love ugly pet.its only God's kind love that is unconditional
Mate no one is ugly, to you the person met ugly to another is the more beautiful person.
And you know your choice met different from my or other person.
And some people love ugly lady because they believe no one will disturb her
Yes mate love for a is not a pure love, it is sure not you guess.
If that reason is no more than there won't love again
Thank you for saying that, love is not shown for reason, your explanation just explained all that I'm feeling. loving for a reason don't last because when that reason is no more everything fades.
True! If I love him because he is rich, tomorrow when he is not, my love will fade away. Then was it even love?
I agreed with you mate, even if it is not blind love issue,it is very vital that we know the basis if what true love is,it comes in an unimaginable Way
@insight.pob nice seeing you in the house today and also participate in answering your question today, I also welcome everyone for today,i pray it will go well for us all today
Back to your question :
This question I will like to answer it in two ways firstly I will say you can't love without a reason, their must be a particular thing you see in someone before you can say you love the person
Mind what make you to fall in love might be good or bad it all depends on the aspect you like and what Mr A may like might be what Mr B will hate..
The only man that has being recorded to love without reason is God which is what we call unconditional love any other one is just a fallacy, even our spouses or our lovely one we all love and cherish them for a particular reason,and the is why once their change from those things we love them for then we loss our love from them..
This as make me to throw a question back to you is it good to love someone with some reason? Though I don't know your answer on this but to me I will like to say is not good.
Let assume you love you spouse just because of their beauty which I know that is what many people look at by the time their will loss their beauty though to some vital problem that is when the love will disappear and this what should be forever to live an happen home
I wish also cherish other mate contribution because this is a very interesting question to learn
See, this is what I meant to say. We are talking about Love and Expectations. Love and reasons is not the right way to put it.
Talking about unconditional love, I think it does exist. I love my cat, she doesn't love me back. She hates human touch and scratches me when I love her. She would come to me only when she wants food else she would again scratch me if I try to interact with her. But I still love her. I don't expect anything in return. That's unconditional.
Similarly, when I became a mom, the child was giving me nothing. Not even a smile. It was all on me to give - love, milk, care, changing diapers, making him asleep. What did I get in return? Nothing. But still I love him.
i really like your answer love is something great much more than emotion, i wont say much now but i will come back later to give my answer on this.
Its never possible to love without reasons.
That's the nature of humanity.Nothing can be done without a reason except i you are a robot.
There are two type of love
The Emotional love(Love from your heart or soul)
The spiritual love(Gods love which is unconditional or Love from the spirit)
The Emotional love is the between hus and and wife,two lovers.That emotional love is not possible without reason because that's how we are created.
The spiritual love which is unconditional is only possible by the spirit of God.
I totally agree with this your comment @iyiade in human nature before one can love there must be an attraction and what ever that attraction is , 'That is the reason ' for the love.
nice seeing you too
Love itself is enough reason
I think our ancestors who saw wars, plagues and lived to keep the generations alive.
They had to love without reason.
In todays time, people get married for benefits. Leave them for benefits.
I think in todays time it is hard even some take motherhood for a reason.
It's hard in todays time.
what a great answer, this is also sensible
Good morning!
In my opinion it is possible to love someone without a reason, sometimes we just love someone without any reasonable explanation. Although most times we have a specific reason why we love someone, We may not be able to point it out easily but there is always something.
No reason
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No it's not possible..
Talking about love here, when you love someone, something attracts you to the person, either the beauty, character, personality, the way he/she walks, talks etc...
You might not be able to tell the exact reason that made you fall in love with the person but you should know something attracted you to him/her and that's your reason..
Even those who lust for women have reason then why would love not come with a reason..
Sometimes we get so carried away by the way we feel about a particular person and it makes us see and think that "I just love this person for no reason" not true...
Think and check what drew you to that person...
I think we are confusing reason with emotional behavior here. What you are mentioning above are not reasons but feelings. You feel good about someone so you love them. That's no reason, that's just a way to express your feelings.
Hello friends and good morning to you, is nice to be here again today.
To your question , IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE WITHOUT A REASON?
The answer is simply no, Loving someone means something attracted you to the person, it can be there look, the way they talk, the way they make you feel when you*r around them .
No matter how you think oh i just like him or her naturally deep down something is the reason no matter how little it is.
Have a great day ahead!
Morning insight.pib. I believe that is what is really love. If we haven't loved without a reason, then I am afraid, we haven't really experienced love. Love is love, It doesn't need reasons. Little wonder why true love is termed unconditional. It's beyond understanding
Yeah as for me i believe that true love is when you love someone unconditionally...when you love them without a reason..
i don't think is possible in this current world we are to love without a reason, it's only God that love without a reason.
The most perfect thing a man can do is to LOVE.
Loving your friends and love your enemies also. Don't waste your time hating someone.
Because hating someone doesn't change anything for you and does not add anything good to your life.
Instead of wasting your time on hating someone,why can't you love.
Yeah it very possible because loving someone without a reason that when you can say you're in love with someone.
All what can be all attractive in woman and the handsomeness of the man will still Valde one day. That mean loving with no reason is the best of love on the earth.
Hard to tell
Some people claim love is only chemical reactions in our body so under those optics, there always will be a reason
But is that really all? I don't really know
love unconditional is the greatest love but, there is always an attraction
Most instances of love are nothing to do with reason, just instinct and feeling
love without a reason is the best love you can have towards someone, but when we talk about love, love is a great thing, that is greater than emotion.
the feelings we have for our wife or husband is emotion, the first person you can love without a reason is yourself.
that is why the bible recommends it that love your neighbour as yourself. it mean you should love you neighbour without any reason.
and that type of love is only found in God, when you have given your life to Christ. that is when you can experience that type of love.
but in the world we are today,although there are still people who love without a reason but at first, the love as an attraction.
that attraction is the reason at first that called your attention towards the person, but later you will now love the person, without that attraction. that is when you now love the person without any reason again.
Definitely another good time too to be here mate, definitely am with you on this one also,good to have you back and better if I may say..
As regards your question,yes at times I want to believe that we love people naturally and base on my knowledge,I want to say that is the best way of loving people most times,have seen people who hate too without reason,so I strongly believe that is possible to love someone without having any tangible reasons that get you attracted to the person.
And to me,base on my opinion,I want to say I see that as the best method to love someone,cause love with attachments most times are often fake and that is why people cut relationship this days when they are no longer getting what they use to get before , cause all was based on a reason at first,mind you am not only talking about love relationship here alone,but all relationship,being friendship and lot more.
So am of the fact that people love one another without any reason,it comes naturally and to me and base on My own personal view,am seeing that as the best way to love someone in life, cause it won't fade away irrespective of happenings later in life or future
At times we love people naturally, go deeper into your heart you will find reasons.. Some people will tell you, I like the way he talks and walks, he is just simple by nature, so gentle...
You can start liking someone at first sight but check yourself out something surely attracted that person to you..
I got so acquainted to this community and the reason is because, I enjoy communicating with you guys and not being here in a day makes me feel I'm missing a lot...
No matter how small and intangible a reason is, it's still a reason...
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love without reason is the best but the question is, is it possible to love without reason expecially this dispensation. i dont think is possible now, it is only in God you can find that.