Something happened to him a long time ago which is still affecting the way he interacts with the world around him. Things like bullying are a side-effect of these unresolved issues, which originated from somewhere outside of him. So, it is better to forgive him in the knowledge that it is not his fault and focus on all the wonderful aspects of his character :)
I know it's not easy to do this in the heat of the moment. I am as guilty as anyone for responding with anger to insults. But practice make perfect. And I am genuinely grateful for all that our arguments have taught me about myself.
I try to appologize even when I do not believe I have done something wrong, because I understand now that it is not about being right or wrong. It is all about holding our higher vibration of love, gratitude and joy.
For this is the only way to REALLY teach someone ;)
Know that you have it already. And only your mind cuts you off from it. Practice, practice, practice. Learn to observe the way your mind works. Observe your thoughts and ask yourself who is the one thinking them? The REAL you is made of pure light, pure love and pure perfection :)
What can I say, the biggest part of my life I experienced lots of contrast, like you do. I did not know how life worked! You don't do something wrong, you just have not allowed the improvement in... That is what this filosophy talkes about.
getting bullied for years is becoming unhealthy
Of course, because you pay the most attention to what you do not want, and the real one, you went on, and that difference is negative emotions
By giving your attention more to what you do want!
That, you can practice and the best way to start is by stop thinking for some time, best in de morning. That's meditation. Start your day of with a quiet mind.
This is a progressive thing, take 15-20 minutes every day.
These are the processes of the Abraham's teachings and my own experience. When you type in youtube, "Abraham Hicks", you can find workshops and discussion on many subjects. Thousands of videos https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=abraham+allowing
You are doing nothing wrong. Keep reading Abraham every day and practice daily meditation and visualisation techniques. Look beyond the event which made him the way he is, to the loving soul of light beneath. You can help him if you believe you can. And not with your actions but with the way you think.
Not so difficult when you take their perspective into consideration :)
of bullying me? i will have to try very hard :)
Something happened to him a long time ago which is still affecting the way he interacts with the world around him. Things like bullying are a side-effect of these unresolved issues, which originated from somewhere outside of him. So, it is better to forgive him in the knowledge that it is not his fault and focus on all the wonderful aspects of his character :)
I know it's not easy to do this in the heat of the moment. I am as guilty as anyone for responding with anger to insults. But practice make perfect. And I am genuinely grateful for all that our arguments have taught me about myself.
I try to appologize even when I do not believe I have done something wrong, because I understand now that it is not about being right or wrong. It is all about holding our higher vibration of love, gratitude and joy.
For this is the only way to REALLY teach someone ;)
i need that..higher vibration. thanks Sam.
Know that you have it already. And only your mind cuts you off from it. Practice, practice, practice. Learn to observe the way your mind works. Observe your thoughts and ask yourself who is the one thinking them? The REAL you is made of pure light, pure love and pure perfection :)
And the other one is the EGO?
Exactly
Practice :-)
I must be doing something wrong with these perspectives...getting bullied for years is becoming unhealthy.
What can I say, the biggest part of my life I experienced lots of contrast, like you do. I did not know how life worked! You don't do something wrong, you just have not allowed the improvement in... That is what this filosophy talkes about.
Of course, because you pay the most attention to what you do not want, and the real one, you went on, and that difference is negative emotions
Meditate!
Not allowed the improvement in...how is this done?
By giving your attention more to what you do want!
That, you can practice and the best way to start is by stop thinking for some time, best in de morning. That's meditation. Start your day of with a quiet mind.
This is a progressive thing, take 15-20 minutes every day.
These are the processes of the Abraham's teachings and my own experience.
When you type in youtube, "Abraham Hicks", you can find workshops and discussion on many subjects. Thousands of videos
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=abraham+allowing
Good Question!
let me check him out ta!
You are doing nothing wrong. Keep reading Abraham every day and practice daily meditation and visualisation techniques. Look beyond the event which made him the way he is, to the loving soul of light beneath. You can help him if you believe you can. And not with your actions but with the way you think.
this will take a lot of thought :)